How to Have a Healthy Relationship
1) Do not expect anyone to be responsible for your happiness.
Usually relationships fails because someone is unhappy and blames their partner for making them that way. Make yourself happy first, and then share his or her happiness.
2) Tell the unarguable truth.
Try to avoid lying to ur partener,Lies create disconnection in a relationship, even if your partner never finds out about it. The unarguable truth is about your feelings; your partner can argue about anything that happens outside of you, but he or she cannot rationally deny your feelings. Let’s see an example: “I felt sad when you walked out during our fight and didn’t want to be around me.”
3) Forgive one another.
Forgiveness is a process of ending your anger or resentment towards another individual,Forgiveness is an act of humility, not one of haughty feelings.Try to avoid small fights & if still that happen the best is way is to forgive each other , this will increase your patience level .
4) Appreciate yourself and your partner.
In the midst of an argument, it can be difficult to find something to appreciate. Start by generating appreciation in moments of non-stress, and that way when you need to be able to do it during a stressful conversation, it will be easier. You don’t have to be sugar-coating anything so tell her or him you love him and that you don’t want to argue but talk and make it better.Appreciation does’nt mean Beauty only it cud be any small effort made by your partener which makes u happy .
5) Be Responsible. Here’s a new definition:
esponsible means that you have the ability to respond. There is tremendous power in claiming your creation. If you’ve been snippy to your partner, own up to it, and get curious about how you might do it differently next time. If you are unhappy in your relationship, get curious about how this situation is similar to others from your past, and how you might create a better relationship for yourself rather than try to change your partner.
FAQ’s –
• All good relationships are based upon mutual respect , do respect for your partner .
• Always show your partner that you apreciate him/her. Whether it’s calling them to say I love you, or just spend your Saturday night together. The possibilities are endless .
• Do not assume that any one relationship will be perfect. It is human to experience disagreements and emotional pain.